As I unpacked what they meant by “curiosity,” I realized how much I agreed with them. I just use other words to describe Curiosity. I was focused more on the level of behaviors than the level of mindset.

And these failures, when confronted, are the source of the motivation we need to keep going beyond merely meeting our needs for security. When we are open to learning what it is we truly need—beyond what we are used to wanting, seeking, and asking for—we open ourselves up to the most rewarding work of our lives. And it’s work of a totally different nature…….

The title of this article is the names of my four grandchildren. For those of you who know me well, yes! There's one more, little Frankie. When I look at her I am overwhelmed with emotion. Let me explain…

“What do I think I’m getting away with?”

“What do I think others around me are getting away with?”

Are you doing it for others? This is usually the surface thought to something deeper. Why is it you are doing this for them? How does it benefit you or help you feel a certain way about yourself or a relationship? Why is this the only way to accomplish that? Is it? Tap the brakes and go deep when you feel that you're doing something for others.